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Entries in rome (2)

Monday
25May2009

When In Rome....

So last Friday I was in Rome again, a city that has always charmed me. Mostly, because if you ask any Roman, on any street, including taxi drivers, about their home city, you will get more or less this answer: "Roma e la piu bella citta del mondo" and just like a woman whose response to affirmation is to glow prettier, so does Rome, she glows under her labels "The eternal city", "The most beautiful city"

Yes you can, find litter, beggars, people dragging sad dogs in a haze of drug-induced stupor, but Rome's people love it. I love it. The fountains, the piazze, everyone of them unique, and I'm not a foreign tourist anymore. I have lived north of here for years now.

The venue was good,and  thanks to my taxi driver I found it easily enough in 30 degree heat.

Anyway, I was there blogging for techgarage awards for innovation in web and new media at LUISS. and representing poken.

So began a jam-packed day with 10 start ups presenting.

Poken was represented in the gadgets arena and our poken table with myself representing Poken for Italy, was by far the most visited and popular, with lots of people waiting their turn to see how it worked to manage their social media contacts better.

If you can't wait to get your hands on one of those little critters, then Click on Firebox AD(on the right) they will sell and ship you a single poken. For larger orders in Italy, contact me via my direct email link, bottom right.

The award for innovation was won by a group of smart young people who started Criticalcity.com and  runner up was another interesting start up from Torino called smartRM

Then a good lunch was served outside by white coated waiters, roman style. I never managed to access wifi, but then Italy and her bars are not known for public wifi accessability, innovation or not.

I met so many interesting start ups and people there that, as a networking event, it was worth braving the heat.

Afterwards, we repaired to a cool bar on a wide leafy avenue, Parnaso piazziale Muse above LUISS uni to look over Rome and the green belt with an icy Aperol .

I did not get a chance to throw a coin in the Trevi fountain, but I will definitely be back.

In the following weeks, some of the start ups and VCs like Dpixel (shown below) organising and sponsors at the event, will be interviewed here on wisequeen,

so keep your eye on the blog.

Send us a comment if you attended the event, or want to know more about the startups represented there.

Donna Jackson

Social Communications Specialist.

Wisequeen

 

Saturday
16Aug2008

Wisequeen Advice - Should I go to Rome for a man? 

a wonderful thing happened to me - i > fell in love with an Italian and he will fetch me to > go and live with him in Rome in October! > Everything has happened so suddenly and i must admit > i am still quite overwhelmed by it all, but have > realised that i better find out a bit more about the > country, its ways, etc. and this is where u come > into the picture, because Sue told me u know it > all. I have googled the country a bit, but i need > to know more about the nitty gritty aspects. > I would literally need to know everything, from > applying for a VISA (i believe it is a shengen visa) > to possible cultural aspects to look out for. In > this man's eyes nothing is a problem (language > barrier of note still exists, but should be better > once we communicate face to face - this is an > internet connection!) and as he said "if visa > problem we marry!" I know that a holiday visa would > limit me to a period whereby i would have to return > and re-apply and at my age (i'm 49 - by the time i > go i will be 50) a work permit would not be an > option, so i need to know if u are aware of any > other ways and means. > I am literally trying to obtain as much possible > information and am concerned that i might miss > important issues because of the excitement > involved! This is your proverbial "leap of faith", > so u can imagine. > Hope u can enlighten me. Shirley I don't know what to say to you without putting a big pin into your party balloon, other than a big "Be careful", that is Italian men are very romantic, I know. I can sense your excitement. But as a person who as advised many people on relocations and expat matters, I have to warn you it will be virtually impossible for you to get residence unless you're seriously rich, which I'm assuming you're not. Even EU citizens can go through years of hell to get a permesso. (Permission to stay) A shengen visa is simply something a person from a non-shengen country like yours needs to visit the European countries on holiday. If you want my unfiltered advice, and I take it you do, as you wrote to me, I'll say this; without a job you can't even apply for the permesso. If there was a definite intention to marry, which he will have to prove with the authorites and sign guarantees on your behalf, you could enter Italy again on a new visa, after the holiday, with all this in place. If this man's intentions are more than just a fling, and I hope they are, He must marry you. I say must because in Italy as a foreigner without EU rights, you cannot stay. Without a husband, if you were able to get a get a job without a permesso, which is unlikely and illegal, it will be too menial to pay the rent. If found overstaying your holiday visa, you will be deported, never to return. Whatever you have read, this is a very catholic country, marriage is everything. Has this man been married before? Have you checked if he is still married? You won't be the first foreign women who has arrived in Italy with stars in her eyes, and then after the fling, to find out he has already walked down the isle with his lifetime moglie (wife). Separation is not akin to divorce in Italy. It takes 5 -7 years to get properly divorced and is crazy expensive. So very few men chose to go that route. So beware. My suggestion is this, Suggest to him that you visit for a holiday, to check things out, then set the wheels in motion in your own country for a marriage there, before you give up your job and life. If you are still convinced after the holiday, your local consulate will apply to Italy for a nulla osta for him- which means a certificate, stating he is free to marry. When, and if, you have that, he can come out to you for a holiday, meet your family, and then if you are still "in love" with this man, you can marry there. I strongly advise you not to consider being his live-in-lover in Italy, you will have uphill struggle in every way. Something you probably don't need as you enter your fifties. It's so much easier for him in Italy. He has nationality, his family, he can get a job, pension, medical care, everything, without a struggle. You in Italy, as a non-wife, will have an impossible time, and what's worse he will not understand this because its not like this for him. The language problem is a challenge, but the cultural one far greater. You can't find a job without fluent Italian. The English teaching jobs that there are, are snapped up by the EU foreigners with a permesso who followed a partner. Whatever your profession is, you probably can't practice it here because of language and registration. Even those who were lawyers, doctors, and dentists in the home countries, do odd jobs trying to translate a document here and there. Don't believe the romantic stories of women who come here to Tuscany to buy a villa and live in bliss with an Italian stud. They are rich and keep ties with America. For every one of these, there's a hundred who return home broke and bitter. Do you need to work to survive ? If the answer is yes and you decide to spend your life with him, then you must marry this man before you come, and can therefore enter Italy as a wife of an Italian citizen, a very different story. If you are not sure about this man who says" if visa trouble we marry". You could be putting your life into real difficulty. This man obviously hasn't done much research into what must be done for you to come. So I have my doubts. Read the permesso posts here Italy And the excellent Europe site here PS. Think hard, read this, and other "real life" Italy sites with all the links that you need, not just the Under the Tuscan Sun and the "eat pray love" approach to Rome. Wisequeen. Do you agree with Wisequeens advice would you like to add something or disagree? Here's the place to do it, send a comment.